First time with a gay man
First gay experience was with a 45 year old
Age when it happend: 17
Where it happened: In a van
Langauge: english
Sex: Male
Rating: 9
Category: Gay
Although when a child you contain those moments you exhibit your friend your dick and what not, this is my first actual sexually experience with a another man. First off let me say I consider myself straight, although technically I have been with men so I guess that makes me bi even though those days are over with. However I always wanted to every since I think I was around 13. I was always curious about it but never acted on it other than masturbating.
When i got around 15 or 16 I started chatted on aim chat rooms that was m4m. I don’t believe that back then craigslist was around like it is today. When I was a senior in lofty school I was 17. That is the age I started sexually experimenting with both girls and guys which lead to the loss of my virginity from both. Initial that year in the fall, I first clueless my virginity to a girl. Then when spring came I finally decided to start looking into doing it.
I could not risk looking for someone I comprehend out of fear that people would find out so I never even consi
14."I went on a trip to a tropical country. I found a petite, secluded, resort-type place with a prevent while exploring the area. I spent the entire time there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go interpret by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me..."
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came advocate with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could endeavor, and at this point I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was down.
It was an interesting experience. I was taller and physically bigger and had never been
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To begin, I’d enjoy to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to travel their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to understand that you can try modern things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who crave to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
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