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Ever wanted to comprehend the secrets to becoming a influence bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a try but not sure how to begin?

We can assist you become a better bottom! Here are some immediate bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.

1. Lube

The arse does not produce its own lubrication.

This means that lube is really, really significant for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to build bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to facilitate protect it from infections.

Remember to utilize water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can injure condoms.

2. You

The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and feeling aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.

Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people deeply interested are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good girlfriend and you can’t experience pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).

3. R

The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any bond. Mastering different gay sex positions not only heightens the encounter but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a top or bottom?” Don’t worry. These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ community, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve put together an ever-growing list of Homosexual terminology.

At Bespoke Surgical, we reflect about sex in completely diverse ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you explore, it’s important to realize their differences:

  • Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
  • Bring out both submissive or offensive characteristics of each person
  • Require an understanding of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)

Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and loyal communication. It’s key

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I’m scared of bottoming

Most gay men will reflect on bottoming at some moment. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off. 

You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse act like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can acquire douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.

Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do utilize amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:

  • have been linked with an increased chance of HIV transmission 
  • don’t mix with erection drugs enjoy Viagra and may generate a heart attack.

Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.

Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w