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Spark Notes is a recurring series about the lightbulb moments in sexual development.

I didn’t notice that I was gay until my first year of sky-high school, when I received a powerful vision. It revealed itself in the cafeteria, which was cavernous, ugly, and full of golden light. I looked up from my math homework to see a male classmate—let’s call him “Ed”—standing at the far end of the room, fatefully sagging his jeans. There was his butt, in red plaid boxers, a perfect butt, and before I could halt it, before I could think about quadratics or Auschwitz, my body grant me know exactly how I felt.

To be distinct, I had no personal investment in Ed. In this moment, he was not, to me, an individual but a butt—as his low-slung swagger had deliberately encouraged. That must have been part of the thrill. At our extremely unsexy, science-focused magnet school, he was a babe—an arts student, even, a painter!—and he knew it.

I had a boner because of a exist man. So I began to seek out other ones, to replicate my findings.

I knew there was reasoning to be done. I identified at the period as an insufferable atheist, and the belief I held most strongly was that the truth could

Looking after your assets: everything you need to grasp about maintaining a happy, healthy ass

By Emen8, updated 11 months ago in Sex and matchmaking app / Sex

Anal sex. It’s probably not a deeply explored topic in the standard birds-and-bees chat.

But just like the rest of your sexy bits, your anus offers a whole wonderful earth to explore, and the mechanics are just the starting. Bottoming can be one of the most intense, intimate, vulnerable and mind-blowing things you can do with another guy. Or it can be average, uncomfortable, embarrassing and very unsatisfying.

The difference can be as simple as arming yourself with the right information — and, as always, we’ve got your back(side). Read on for the heated take on maintaining a happy, sound ass, and how to use it for the foremost sex of your life.

1. Get to know the basic anatomy

As you can see from the handy diagram, this area involves several special muscles and sphincters. It sits right behind your prostate and the rest of your sex anatomy, which is why it feels so fine when your buddy is inside you. It’s also lined internally with mucosa (a moist, protective membrane) and is very rich in blood vessels

An Inside Look at Gay Men's Hairless Butt Obsession

The steel shower head in my college dorm's communal bathroom watched me every occasion. Its view was so sad: the focus on my face; my clenched jaw; the backs of my ankles flexed as I contorted by body to shave the hair buried in my butt crack.

Being gay and a bottom (ie, someone who receives penetration) I'm often concerned about my butt hair situation. Countless hookups hold requested a butt that's polished, lacking even the tiniest hint of stubble. It's unfair, when you think about it: Being penetrated in itself forces you to be vulnerable—yet guys also have the gall to ask us to look "perfect" during the act? But it's what I've come to expect: Which is why, in that dismal shower stall, I pushed through the pain of twisting my body and went forth with my trusty razor.

It's not that I've had lousy luck in picking partners who look after way too much about butt hair. It's a genuine point of worry among gay men. On AskGayBros, a 188k-member Reddit page, bottoms ask questions like "What's the shaving situation in Manhattan?" and "As a bottom twink, should I welcome my butt hair?" On Grindr, the go-t

Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to provide bottoming a try but not sure how to begin?

We can help you become a improve bottom! Here are some fast bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.

1. Lube

The arse does not produce its own lubrication.

This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to help protect it from infections.

Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.

2. You

The second law is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you notice comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.