I think my bf is gay
Help, bf might be gay?
at first there was nothing to make me scrutinize if he was gay- he likes eating me out, thinks I’m sexy, talks about having a baby, and talks about how he loves my 🐱 .but recently he’s been making weird remarks about gay people. Usually straight men don’t rl care what gay people complete but he’s been commenting on it a lot recently.
Example: “I enjoy gay people, but not the ones that put it on display” “hockey guys are really fruity” “I detest guys wirh extended hair” “ I wonder if homosexual people…”
I also began thinking if he is suppressing something by him making kinda homophobic, but not homophobic comments like those.
On top of that, his sex drive has been down and he has new guy friends . I don’t naturally twist him on anymore, and I was thinking about how ‘loyal’ he’s been. He doesn’t see at ANY girls, talk about anything related to girls and is nothing but friendly with any girl he meets. To me, it’s suspicious of how ‘loyal’ he’s been to me. He recently just started a fresh sport with all men and all he does on his phone is text them (more than he texts me).
What complete you think? And how can I tell if he’s gay.
If the thought has ever crossed your mind, “I think my boyfriend is gay”… this share is for you.
This is a subject that I have wanted to write about for a very long time. Why? Because I once dated a guy who was everything I had ever wanted, until… I establish something that forever changed the foundation that our relationship was built on.
I was once that girl, who didn’t know what to do or where to shift . A girl that found herself in the middle of the night Googling, “Is he gay? Is my boyfriend gay? I think my boyfriend is gay” while *he* was sound asleep next to me – as seemingly NOT gay as ever. I had never had a connection with anyone like this before. It couldn’t be. But then again, why did I find what I found on his phone?
Not only did I not find anything from my Google searches, but I actually set up a ton of junk out there that personally, I believe is very disrespectful to the gay community. “If he hangs out with guys,” “If he spends longer doing his hair than you do,” “If he dances fancy (I don’t understand what that even means),” “If he cares too much about his hygien
Is My Boyfriend Gay? Or Is It My Anxiety?
It’s not uncommon to include a passing reflection about your boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s sexual orientation. If questions like “is my boyfriend gay” hold over, it may be a autograph of obsessive-compulsive disorder.
It’s natural to contain doubts sometimes about our romantic relationships. It happens all the time. But what if you can’t stop trying to figure out whether your partner or girlfriend is gay?
If you’re vertical, it’s scary to think that you’re with someone who’s gay and hasn’t realized it yet. Lots of people take a distant time to comprehend their sexual orientation, right? Maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend is just in the early part of this process. How can you tell?
Could This Be OCD?
For some people, the doubt and anxiety they trial around this topic rise to the level of obsessiveness.
Obsessions are a hallmark symptom of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). They typically take the form of an upsetting or scary thought that causes significant anxiety.
Sometimes in OCD, obsessions center on thoughts about one’s own sexual orientation; this is a sub-typ
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I have a similar situation with my bond. My boyfriends gay companion is inLove with him and he doesn’t be aware that. there is so many things that build me realize that.
1 they see each other once a week to sip in a bar, when they do and obtain drunk, my boyfriends homosexual friend starts complementing him in front of me , like his handsome, touching his arm ( in a way that makes me uncomfortable), looking him with this in love eyes. start making inappropriate joke
2 he had a picture of a naked guy that looks like my boyfriend and even he shows the pictures to everybody. and he start saying DOESNT HE LOOK LIKE HIM???
3 he told my partner that he heard that i was dating one of his friends a couple of times( guy that I don’t even know). obviously lies.. don’t know what was exactly his intention.
4 he invited my boyfriend first to an island and a week after he mentioned and then he invited me .. ( last minute) obiously my partner didn’t go.
5 he always pays for everything, dinner, uber, all the slurp in the bar ( mos